Creating a healthy boundary for your emotional wellness

“When we fail to set boundaries and hold people accountable, we feel used and mistreated.”  – Brené Brown Boundary is one thing we rarely talk about in many abusive relationships until we get to the point where “we can’t take it anymore!” It’s like more people find it too cumbersome to do, or are totally ignorant […]

SINGLES BECOMING…THE PODCAST

“When you are healed, go out and heal others..” – Maya Angelou   Sometimes, I think being single, especially as a single lady, in Nigeria, can be one of the hardest things to be. If the married women are not thinking you are after their husbands, the single guys would be feeling cool with themselves […]

UNDERSTANDING your LOVER’S LOVE LANGUAGE

We discussed last time about how it can be difficult for some people to receive love because of some reasons we cited. Find it here. It is from some of the personal responses to me from that post I’d be concluding the love series. Part of the issues from these responses is the difficulty in […]

HELP! I DO not KNOW HOW TO RECEIVE LOVE!

It’s sad that some people do feel guilty about being loved. If you have lived at least up to two decades on Earth, you’d have heard at least one of these sayings below as regards giving/receiving: “It is more blessed to give than to receive..” “Givers never lack!” “You must be a giver in order […]

WHY DO WE FALL IN LOVE?

WHY DO WE FALL IN LOVE? Have you ever been in love? Now? Before? Never? For many marriage is the seal of their shared love, forever. It is to the she-lover the security of finally being the only one for him. At least, so she believes. One of the most beautiful song delightful to the […]

IS SELF-LOVE SELFISH?

Today marks the conclusion of our discussion on self-love, and I would like to draw the line between what it means to actually love yourself and what being selfish is. This is important because some without the deep understanding of self-love rush to condemn it and claim self-love to be a selfish life-style agenda. Which […]

How Self Love Affects Relationships

SELF-LOVE, AND ITS IMPACT ON OUR RELATIONSHIPS….   If you have had many recurrent issues with inadequacies in relationships regardless of how supportive or loving your partners may have been towards you, then you should be interested in self-love. It could be the answer to the constant pains that made you felt jinxed. Don’t worry […]