SINGLES BECOMING…THE PODCAST

“When you are healed, go out and heal others..” – Maya Angelou   Sometimes, I think being single, especially as a single lady, in Nigeria, can be one of the hardest things to be. If the married women are not thinking you are after their husbands, the single guys would be feeling cool with themselves […]

ACCEPTING THE DARK SIDE OF YOU – THE SHADOW SELF.

“..because what you refuse to deal with may eventually deal with you.” – Joy Iseki When we were kids, we judged almost all things we did as nothing. We did most in the name of play, until the adults would catch us in these acts and attached meanings to our actions. We would then accept […]

WHY THE BOOK, BECOMING?

Two days ago, being the 2nd of July, marked the official release of my new book, BECOMING. Since I have been talking about this book for weeks prior to its release, I have had to answer some questions from different people, mainly out of care. Some people would send me messages, mostly to my inbox, […]

USING SELF AWARENESS FOR CRITICAL DECISIONS

These days a lot of things happen almost faster than the speed of light. This is the result of the fast paced era we are in. Most services can now be paid for in split seconds, with the products consumed almost simultaneously. Although this is a superb development but it comes with its own challenges […]

THE IMPLICATION OF LACK OF SELF-ACCEPTANCE ON YOUR RELATIONSHIPS

The subject of one having to accept oneself can be strange to hear among people who wonder how anyone could have rejected himself by the way. Literally, it wasn’t that you told yourself to get off. No, nothing like that. It’s the subtle ways you treat yourself badly and so attract people who do same […]

BECOMING…

  To everything, there is a time and season; a time to become aware of who you are, and a time to know whom you are becoming. Between these two seasons however, is a lifelong journey that involves the whole process it would take you to get there. This is the journey of whom you […]

WHAT MAKES YOU FEEL AFRAID OF BEING ALONE?

I recently had trip to the conservation hub where I met a young beautiful lady by chance along that journey. She, like me, was alone during this time. But unlike me, it was because her friend who she had wanted to have the trip with had been taken on another trip suddenly by her boyfriend. […]

How not loving yourself can sabotage your relationships

If a lady does not consider herself good enough, because of the issues she might be having with her inner self as a result of one or two things she despises about herself; maybe her looks, or some other attributes about her body, she may find herself always trying to be too pleasing with whom […]